I Kisses My Sisters Best Friend Again
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My best friend kissed my brother!
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Not the most sensationalist title in recent times only it's really knocked me for half dozen. Nosotros were out in a club and when I turned around there they were...on each other...I gave her the daggers, she said sorry and then when I returned from the bath information technology happened again.
I can't bring myself to speak to either of them.
Am I right to be upset/annoyed or am I beingness a selfish prat, where's the dear and all that jazz?
Need your advice.
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Yeah could you please motility it for me please. Thanks
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PI for this? In all seriousness, get over it!
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I fail to see any trouble here. Your brother kissed a girl you lot happen to exist best friends with. Well, you know he'southward not gay at least (Not that theres anything incorrect with that) other than that, this is the Simply remote-explaination I can think of:
Grow upward and stop the turf war.
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Why are you annoyed with them both OP? Do you fancy your friend? Do yous not become on with your blood brother? I can't actually meet why it'd exist a problem if they both like each other and decide to hook up.
Y'all really need to let usa know why this is a problem for yous and so we can requite you some better advice/thoughts.
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He's my older blood brother, nosotros don't get on, he undermines everything I practise.
She'due south my younger best friend, I take no sexual feelings towards her, I'k gay. I can't explain why it upsets me so much, it merely does.0
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allow them accept their fun don't be a cock blocking bowwow
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They're both independent people so let them go for it, it probably simply seems a scrap wierd at the moment, but at least you know both your bro and all-time friend are with someone y'all can trust.
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He'due south my older blood brother, nosotros don't go on, he undermines everything I practise.
She's my younger best friend, I have no sexual feelings towards her, I'm gay. I tin can't explain why it upsets me so much, it only does.im judging by the sig youre the gay younger brother?
At present encounter, if yous had mentioned that in the outset place.. I can and then understand why your all-time friend, a straight girl that gets you, hooking upward with your straight undermining older brother, might exist a legitimate effect for you.
get a decent chance to talk with her even so?
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Nope haven't talked to her since it happened on Sunday. I told her I need infinite. Information technology's non every bit if it'due south a relationship I suppose, but has she always secretly fancied him?? and never told me, I've told her all my bug with him over past few years and she has always stood up for him....
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Ah permit them on OP.
I know yous told her all your issues with him, just remember sexual attraction is strong and hard to resist.
What type of stuff went on with your blood brother, is it just regular sibling rivalry etc or more serious........
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Nothingcompares ane calendar week ban for personal abuse.
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If this thread were about a guy kissing his all-time friends sisters there would be different responses!!
OP, the first fourth dimension she kisses him, while not the finish of the globe, was a little heartless. It'due south perfectly acceptable to desire a little flake of notice for things like that rather than just walk in on information technology! But, all in all, information technology would have been forgotten quite quickly aye?
However, the fact that she saw you were upset and apologised, and And so did information technology once again? No, that's not on at all, in fact that's mode beyond out of order and shows a consummate lack of respect for your feelings.
I'd exist having words.
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You should talk to your mate about information technology - even you are a bit unhappy almost information technology and don't want to talk about information technology, getting it out in the open sooner is far meliorate. Y'all may accept to take, ultimately, that she wants become out with your brother & exist your friend likewise.. if you tin't take that you might lose your best friend, is that something you lot really desire? - I know y'all have troubles with your brother, just siblings always do, hell me and my sister were at war until I moved out of the house years ago!
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Your best friend and your brother are entitled to kiss whoever they want, they don't need your permission.
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Your best friend and your brother are entitled to kiss whoever they want, they don't need your permission.
What if your best friend kissed your mother (or father)?
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What if your best friend kissed your mother (or father)?
My best friend has 4 legs, it happens all the time.
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OMG - She kissed your brother. Lose her as a friend that is just soo unacceptable
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OP.
what the problem here? !? At the end of that 24-hour interval its none of your business. they can do what they want.
You need to lean back
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OMG - She kissed your blood brother. Lose her equally a friend that is just soo unacceptable
Why is that unacceptable?
OP - while I can meet how you might be annoyed since you don't actually become on with your blood brother y'all can't really dictate who your friend or your brother kiss. And if you brand a big deal out of information technology information technology'll just drive them together.
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He's my older brother, nosotros don't become on, he undermines everything I do.
She'due south my younger best friend, I accept no sexual feelings towards her, I'm gay. I can't explain why it upsets me so much, it only does.Soooo - if your best friend is getting off with your blood brother, you can either take the opportunity to build a closer relationship with your brother or throw a tantrum because she's your friend.
Without asking specifics about a lady'south historic period, are you over or under 15 ?
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My sis went out with my mate for a year. I didn't give a ****. They were happy, and I don't get along keen with my sis either.
I went out with my sister'due south best mate for about 6 months. My sister stopped speaking to her. Treated her like crap pretty much and information technology reallly hurt my and so girlfriend, We broke up 6 months later, mainly cos of that. They're back to being friends. Bottom line is that i nevertheless think my sis is a bitch for the way she acted and still oasis't ever forgiven her properly for it.
My advice is to cop the **** on and finish existence an immature pain in the arse because that's all yous are at the moment (here comes the ban stick) If your mate wants to become out with your brother then permit her, it'south her business organization and you have absolutely no correct to dictate in what she does. Abound upwardly and kickoff acting like an adult.
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Is this really a cause for drama in your life.
Two people yous know well take shown affection towards each other.
Why practise you experience hurt, is it because yous don't like your older brother and you lot see your friends actions equally a betrayal (as conspicuously she does like him, at least physically)?
Yous say your brother undermines you, in what means? IS that the only reason you dislike him?
Are you lot jealous your older brother may exist "stealing" your best friend?
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He'southward my older brother, we don't get on, he undermines everything I practice.
That's what nigh older brothers do til yous both get adults
They kissed big deal, or was it a case he said to her 'giz a buss information technology will actually pish him off'. I think you are reading into this a piddling likewise much, what'due south done is done.0
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Am I right to be upset
If you are under xv, then yous can put it downward to hormones and jealousy.
If you are over 15, it's fourth dimension to abound upwards and acquire when something is not your business.0
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He's my older brother, we don't go on, he undermines everything I do.
She'south my younger best friend, I have no sexual feelings towards her, I'm gay. I can't explicate why information technology upsets me and so much, it just does.I assume you don't go on with your brother and are happy enough to chat to you lot mate about it. As she is YOUR mate y'all kind of subconciously experience that she too should recall that your brother is a bit of a dick.
Hither is the thing....she doesn't accept to think that.
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OP I think yous will have to but deal with information technology yourself. Your brother and your friend tin can kiss or go out with whoever they like, including each other.
I started going out with my brother's friend when nosotros were all teenagers. Brother wasn't happy about information technology merely almost ix years later we are even so going strong, and Blood brother has long since dealt with it and happy for us. Will you exist annoyed if your blood brother and friend start going out together?
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im judging by the sig youre the gay younger brother?
At present encounter, if you had mentioned that in the start identify.. I tin then empathize why your best friend, a straight girl that gets y'all, hooking upwardly with your direct undermining older brother, might exist a legitimate outcome for y'all.
go a decent take chances to talk with her yet?
Yeah he should definitely accept mentioned that - sig didn't exactly explain it all. I recollect I see what the OP is getting at.
My point stands though. Get over information technology, you demand to be able to shrug it off and say "**** it". Yous shouldn't dislike either of them over information technology.
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She's my younger best friend, I have no sexual feelings towards her, I'm gay. I tin't explain why it upsets me so much, it only does.
It'south normal to feel territorial over friends and if something further were to happen between your brother and your best friend, the best friend relationship dynamic is highly likely to modify and that's scaring you the near.
You've taken the wrong grade of actions. Expect at this logically:
They buss, you get bitchy, forbidding them from seeing ane another drives them closer together, elephant is brought into the room for you and your friend, friendship shrivells
They kiss, y'all act as if it doesn't bother you and give her a chip of a slagging, concur your head high, she'll all the same encounter you as a friend and things volition get dorsum to normal when things fade with your brother.
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Without asking specifics about a lady'due south historic period, are you over or under xv ?
Haha thats hillarious, its a human, a gay man so that explains the name, but a man none the less
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